Since then I've moved and only really see him occasionally when I'm back visiting old friends, though I'd loved to have been able to ask him kinda, what made him gay. Was he secretly always masking his true feelings or did something turn him to liking men? Can this be done?
Basically, my question to you is, "Is being gay a learned behaviour, or a natural occurance?" Is it a choice that people make, or feelings they cannot control?
Please be respectful with your answers, any blatant abuse towards homosexuality will be reported as it's really not what I hoped to create through this debate.
Thought I'd give you three quotes as starting points:
Lesbianism has always seemed to me an extremely inventive response to a shortage of men, but otherwise not worth the trouble. ~Nora Ephron, Heartburn, 1983
You know what they say: You can't teach a gay dog straight tricks. ~Trey Parker & Matt Stone, South Park
If homosexuality is a disease, let's all call in queer to work: "Hello. Can't work today, still queer." ~Robin Tyler
Edited by Bladesfan, 13 April 2009 - 10:56 PM.